Often, when we reach our "Fuck This" moment, we blame other people for pushing us to get there. Now in some ways this is true, they were players in the game of our Shit. 

But that’s it. 

This may be hard to acknowledge, but everything that is happening to us is because of the choices that we have made. It may not have been conscious, but we are locked in the loop of our Shit because we are not choosing to break out of it. 

Our emotional state of being (when we assume the role of the “why me”, assign blame to other people, drown in the “why does this keep happening to me” etc) keeps us locked into our karma.

We are the only ones that can change our reality, and we can only do so once we take responsibility for the fact that we had a hand in creating it. 

Now this isn’t about blaming ourselves for what has happened in the past, present or feared future. It’s also not about trying to choose differently ‘this time’, to get a desired outcome from someone else. That would be an utter waste of time (you can’t change what has passed nor can you predict what will happen).

If you want to create a life that brings you joy, the first step is to own that it doesn’t. Then you can see that it is more than possible to change that. 

How fucking cool is that?